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Yes/no/maybe list

Mark each line yes, maybe or no, then compare with a partner.

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Fill it in on your own first, then compare with a partner. A "maybe" is an invitation to talk, not a promise, and any answer can change later. Leave out anything you do not want to answer. Clear all answers starts the list over.

Talking

ActivityYour answer
Sharing a fantasy without acting on it
Describing what you would like, in words
Being told what to do (verbally)
Giving instructions
Praise
Teasing and anticipation

Touch and sensation

ActivityYour answer
Blindfolds
Feathers, fur or soft textures
Ice or cool temperatures
Scratching (light)
Hair holding (gentle)
Being tickled
Spanking (light, with a check-in)

Power and roles

ActivityYour answer
Taking the lead for a set time
Following a partner's lead for a set time
Role play with agreed characters
Dressing up
Protocol or small rituals (for example, a form of address)

Restraint

ActivityYour answer
Holding wrists
Soft cuffs or ties
Decorative rope on the arms or torso (no suspension)
Being held still

Aftercare

ActivityYour answer
Cuddling or being held
Quiet time alone
Water, a snack or a blanket
Talking it through the same day
A check-in message the next day

Notes

Next: Yes/No/Maybe: mapping desires together and How to negotiate a scene.